In this short article on how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back I'll share with you a few simple steps you can take in getting your ex boyfriend to come back to you.
It is normal to want to do all the things that happen after a break up.
You might cry and go crazy for a while when you get word of the break up.
Do not worry, I'll put you on the right path and you will feel empowered.
The first thing you want to do is to get on his good side so that there can be no more conflict.
You want to agree that it was a good thing to break up.
Let him know that you have no problem with him letting go and that you wish for him the happiest of life.
This will catch him off-guard since he was not expecting that kind of reaction.
The second thing you want to do is to not try to get back with him the way most people go about it.
You do not want to beg him to come back since this will only show your desperation and make him not feel attracted to you.
You do not want to use sex, the kids, money or any thing similar.
So how to get your ex boyfriend to want you back without using any of these tactics? You have to re-attract him back to you using subtle psychological methods that when activated will let him see you in a new light and re-evaluate his decision.
This is the third thing to do: re-attract him back to you.
Think of how he was first attracted to you.
Was it your smile? Was it something about you that caused him to want to be with you? Think about what it is and try to bring out more of that side of you.
To attract him back to you, you have to do things and engage in activities that will enhance you as a person and let him see you in a new light.
Start going to the gym and even get a make over by changing your hairstyle and outward appearance.
Do as many things as you can to add more value to you and make it known to him through subtle ways.
Try to be pleasant around them and be a friend and encourage him to do things that will make him better.
By doing all these things you are showing him that you are a valuable person to him and he should want you in his life.
Never say this directly though; it should be made known indirectly.