Over the course of a few years of marriage, things shift between a woman and her husband. In some cases, feelings dramatically change and if you're like me, you may even reach a point where you don't feel as in love with your husband. Divorce isn't always an option, especially if you have children and are committed to keeping your family together. If you've been wondering how do I fall in love with my husband again, there are a few things that can help reawaken those feelings.

Remember back to the time when you two first fell in love. Chances are that you felt that your husband was the perfect man for you. You looked past his unappealing habits and you felt that you could change certain things about him. Over time those small habits or personality conflicts can become more apparent and can challenge your feelings for him. When I wanted to fall in love with my husband again I realized I had to start seeing everything positive about him, instead of focusing on those negative things.

One of the best and most effective ways to do this is to change how you talk about your husband with others. As women, we often confide in the other women in our lives. If you've grown accustomed to complaining about your husband to your sister, friend or co-worker, stop that and instead talk about what you enjoy about him. It's amazing how much you can impact your own feelings if you are sharing positive experiences with others. Hearing yourself talk favorably about your husband can help reignite those old feelings again. I did this when I was determined to fall in love with my husband again and it really did make a difference in how I was feeling towards him.