If your life is at stand still right now and you are wishing that you could be with your ex boyfriend again, you might want to think again.
  You broke up for a reason so you have to clarify that in your mind and if you still think that you want to win back lost love then here are some tips to consider.
1.
  Make sure that you are doing this for a good reason and not because you are bored or have a hard time finding a new partner.
  Think about the reasons that you broke up on the first place and make sure that you do not repeat the same pattern when you win back your lost love.
2.
  You have to think about your ex and know that there is a possibility that he has moved on to another partner.
  If he did find another partner then you should abandon the idea of winning your love back.
  You don't want to cause yourself undue hardship by trying to win him back if he is happy in his new relationship.
3.
  Things had changed in both of your lives and as a result you two have become  different people now, especially if your lost love was from long time ago.
  People do change over time, so if you remember your love in a certain way from when you were together, well now he might be totally different then what you remember him to be.
4.
  You don't want to act like you are desperate, don't show up on his door steps and pester him with your calls and text messages.
  Once you get a chance to connect, take your time getting to know each other again, don't show him that you want him back so desperately.
  Take your time and get to know him and so he can get to know who you are as a person again.
  5.
  Think about the future and don't dwell on the past.
  You know what mistakes were made the first time around so now you being the wiser person know how to avoid them.
You can't relive the past so you must move on and now that you have won back your lost love you need to plan for the future with this person.
  You both have another chance to make things right this time and take the opportunities that are given to you this time.
Don't take things for granted, don't repeat the same mistakes, you have another chance to start over now that you won back your love back.