Are you pleading "please help me save marriage?" Then no doubt you have arrived at a place in your life that you never once thought you'd be. Sad though this is for you, don't despair and give up hope. Instead take a stand, put these 3 steps into action today and you'll be well on your way to saving your marriage, no matter how bad things might seem right now.

1) Commitment to save marriage

Make sure in your heart of hearts you're 100% committed to saving the marriage. If you're only half hearted in making this attempt, then you are basically wasting your time.

After all, what you are attempting to do is to change the direction of your marriage. The wrong direction that your marriage has taken that has lead it towards failure, hostility and mis-trust has not happened over night. This break down in your marriage has happened over a period of time, possibly many years.

That being the case, changing the course and direction of your marriage is not going to happen over night. So be prepared for what you are attempting to take time and effort - I'd be lying to you if I told you could rescue your marriage in a couple of days. So please be sure that you are committed and ready to do this.

2) Communication to save marriage

With marriages that are on the point of breaking up, there is pretty much always a break down in communication.

Couples find themselves either in silent arguments that rage on in their own individual heads. Arguments that they never have with their spouses.

Or they find themselves screaming at each other and hurting each other with accusations and threats.

Whichever of these two points you and your spouse are at, or perhaps you are somewhere in the middle, it doesn't really matter. All that matters if you are serious about trying to save your marriage today, is that you must find a way to sit down and communicate calmly and rationally together.

If you can both find a way to discuss the failings of your marriage, then you can find a way to resolve and save your marriage. If there is no healthy communication happening between the two of you then you will NEVER be able to save your marriage.

If you both need to sit down with a third party - keep in mind that this can be expensive - then that's what you should do.

Alternatively there are great resources for you to use to save the marriage and these resources are far more competitively priced than opting for one on one relationship counseling.

Which brings me on to the third step!

3) Find Good Resources to save marriage

Make sure that you know what you're doing when you attempt saving your marriage.

You can do more harm than good at this critical time in your marriage if you're not approaching the saving of your marriage with a proven plan.