Have you noticed every time you go into a club or watch television, there will be some guy who is sporting a much older woman on his arm. What secrets do these guys know that some of us don't know about dating older women?

While it might be a little stereotypical to believe that younger men are drawn to older women because they think they can show their older partners a good time between the sheets. Then think again, it's the older women who are showing the younger guys what they've been missing out on between the sheets.

So what is the attraction? Is it because older women are definitely good for a fling?

Or is it the unbelievable sex when dating older women. Besides the sex and a good fling, some men prefer to date older women, because they go against the grain to have fun, and they certainly have their lives together a lot more than some of the younger women. Older women have already had their families and are more confident in their careers.

There is nothing wrong with dating an older woman, as long as you are attracted to one another, the age gap doesn't make a big difference at all.

So guys, if you want to be one of these men who would like to date older women, then you have to understand that these women want guys who can be mature in any situation, if you're still considering on dating older women, then here are some tips to make your dating experience as enjoyable as it can be.

1. Decide what kind of relationship you want?

Before you decide you must first know what kind of relationship you want? Do you want a short-term relationship or a long-term one? Are you looking to marry as the end result? Try and make it clear to yourself what it is you really want, before you start dating an older woman.

2. Your number one priority is to have fun.

Dating older women can be a nice and exciting experience. But the number one priority is, always remember to have fun and always see the lighter side of life to enjoy every moment of your dating experience. When you set your mind that dating an older woman can be fun, things will work out smoothly and you will find happiness in what you do.

3. Stop worrying what others think.

Stop worrying about what others may think of your relationship. In this society, although many may accept the fact that age does not matter, as long as you love one another, but still some may raise their eyebrows when they see couples together with such an age gap.

4. Toy boy comments should not put you off dating an older woman.

Sometimes you may hear a comment like "some woman only like to date toy boys" whenever a guy dates an older woman, this should not worry you a bit. Comments like this will not make you less of a person. Be confident and focus your attention on dating the person you desire.

5. Find a woman who is interested in younger men.

It is necessary that you find a woman who is interested in a younger man. You will have a bigger chance of success to win her heart if you knew for certain that she is also interested in dating a younger man.

When you find one, feel good about yourself because dating an older woman can really be a tough process. If you think, there are things you need to change to make you feel more confident then do it.

6. Keep yourself in tip top shape.

Go to the gym, change your diet, and pamper yourself. All these will be able to boost your confidence and make you ready to deal with any rejection in the future. Another thing, don't keep the experience of dating an older woman to yourself.

You should at least tell your friends about it and get them involved in the process. Listen to what your friends have got to say about your relationship, try and use your judgement and weigh up the advice they give you to make any future decisions you make in your relationship.

7. Be a good conversationalist.

Remember to be a good conversationalist, with the age gap you share, try and keep up with as many interesting subjects as you can, you must let her feel that you can communicate properly and that you are able to express your ideas clearly and creatively.

Always keep in mind when going on dates with an older woman; verbal, visual and subtle communication is necessary to make your dating experience really memorable. Having a good sense of humour can help to create a relaxing atmosphere.

She should feel comfortable being with you, even if you are younger and will be at ease with your presence. Make her feel important and that you are interested in her.

8. A relationship with an age gap is not going to be a bed of roses.

Dating an older woman is not going to be just a bed of roses, so do not be suppressed if you find a few thons in your roses. Like any other relationship there are bound to be problems, but when you start to date women who are some years older than you, be ready for the best and the worst a relationship throw can at you.

You should always be willing to accept the complications that come with dating a woman with an age gap. If ever worse comes to worst, and both of you go your separate ways for whatever reason, remember that there's no harm in trying. It is better to date and lose than to never date at all.